Ask the right questions first online dating

24-Apr-2015 06:45 by 7 Comments

Ask the right questions first online dating

Dear Nancy, I’ve been on six first dates this month and I am finding myself getting bored and frustrated having to ask the same old questions over and over again.I know we are all supposed to ask each other questions, but isn’t there a more fun way to find out about someone?

” These questions will probably illicit more information than your normal questions that you’ve been asking, as your date has probably never heard them before and thus will have a more honest answer.

When you start hearing new and perhaps more humorous answers, you will probably not be so bored. For example, discuss something of interest from the day’s headlines or top stories.

Of course, make sure to avoid any negative or controversial topics such as politics or religion. As I’ve advised so often, dating should not be just sitting across the table and having a conversation.

If your first date was a simple “one drink” meeting, there shouldn’t have been much time to ask many questions.

If you wish to see your date again, ask her to go to a ball game, movie, concert, or fun event instead of making a dinner reservation. If there is something about your dating process that isn’t, take the time to examine your steps and revise your expectations and actions. Dear Nancy, I met a great guy last week from Match.com, and I really thought he was into me, but when I mentioned I’d like to see him again, he started telling me how busy he was for the next week.

Should I take this as a sign that he really isn’t into me? Karen, Berwyn, 57 Dear Karen, As hard as it might be to hear — yes, he’s just not that into you.

Remember the movie starring Jennifer Aniston “He’s Just Not That Into You”?

Well, just as the movie reveals, if a man wants to see you again, he will make sure it happens.

Unfortunately, all to often, my female clients will make excuses for a man and keep believing that he likes her.

Instead, I tell my clients to move on and forget about them who don’t pursue them in a gentlemanly way.

What I recommend for you is, to get your calendar full of dates with other men.

If this guy comes around again, give him one last chance.

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