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Are there physiological problems that have caused pain and dryness?Or do the problems lay deeper in the unconscious, stemming from shame, trauma, or a toxic family of origin?
It’s sex therapy in a book for the low libido woman.
In treatment, I often spend the first session or two determining when the low libido started and what is causing it.
Here are some of the questions I ask the woman and her partner to help you begin to analyze their situation.
Each section diagnoses a particular area contributing to the sexual disruption.
Is the genesis of the low sexual desire inside the woman, in her self-image, in her sexual/relational history?
The first step to healing low libido is discovering it’s foundation.
Most of the time, the couple can be helped to have loving sex at a frequency that makes both partners happier. The first time I heard those words from a client, I was flummoxed. In my experience with thousands of couples, a woman’s low libido can be understood. But just like calculus seems impossible to understand, if you break it down and start with arithmetic you can figure out what is happening and solve the problems.Is sex caught between the couple in the power struggle?Have they enacted some withholding-greedy pattern that is trying to say something else but comes out in the bedroom?Is she actually more erotic than him but hides her knowledge in order to protect him from her criticism?